Monday, March 30, 2020


Leadership Thought: Don't Run, but Stay and Learn What God Can Teach Us in the Midst of Suffering.
Dear Friends,

This morning I awoke to the message below that flashed across my computer screen.  It’s a devotional sent to me by one of those on my group list who receives the Leadership Thought that I send out each morning. It had so touched his heart that he wanted to share it with me. I pass it along to you in the hopes that it might awaken your heart as well. As the writer reminds us, suffering can be a mighty teacher if we embrace it, rather than turn and run from it.

In one of my favorite Psalms I am reminded that "God is our refuge and our strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So, we will not fear, even if earthquakes (and, yes, pandemics) come, and the mountains crumble into the sea (Psalm 46:1-2). Yes, God is still on His throne and He is still in control, and He has much to teach us about suffering if we will take the time to listen and learn.

Have  a blessed day, and once again be reminded that God loves you, and Jesus died for you, and that He longs to wrap His arms of love around you and hold you close in every situation, but especially in times of pain and suffering.

Yours in faith and friendship,
Tom

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The Dark Emotions
Thursday, March 26, 2020


Author and Episcopal priest Barbara Taylor Brown invites us to consider the lessons that suffering has to teach us
[Psychotherapist Miriam] Greenspan says that painful emotions are like the Zen teacher who whacks his students with a flat board right between their shoulder blades when he sees them going to sleep during meditation. If we can learn to tolerate the whack—better yet, to let it wake us up—we may discover the power hidden in the heart of the pain. Though this teaching is central to several of the world’s great religions, it will never have broad appeal, since almost no one wants to go there. Who would stick around to wrestle a dark angel [see Genesis 32:22-31] all night long if there were any chance of escape? The only answer I can think of is this: someone in deep need of blessing; someone willing to limp forever for the blessing that follows the wound.  
What such people stand to discover, Greenspan says, is the close relationship between “individual heartbreak and the broken heartedness of the world.” [1] While those who are frightened by the primal energy of dark emotions try to avoid them, becoming more and more cut off from the world at large, those who are willing to wrestle with angels break out of their isolation by dirtying their hands with the emotions that rattle them most.  
In this view, the best thing to do when fear has a neck hold on you is to befriend someone who lives in real and constant fear. The best thing to do when you are flattened by despair is to spend time in a community where despair is daily bread. The best thing to do when sadness has your arms twisted behind your back is to sit down with the saddest child you know and say, “Tell me about it. I have all day.” The hardest part about doing any of these things is to do them without insisting that your new teachers make you feel better by acting more cheerful when you are around. After years of being taught that the way to deal with painful emotions is to get rid of them, it can take a lot of reschooling to learn to sit with them instead, finding out from those who feel them what they have learned by sleeping in the wilderness. . . .  
“One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light,” Carl Jung wrote, “but by making the darkness conscious.” [2] Reading this, I realize that in a whole lifetime spent with seekers of enlightenment, I have never once heard anyone speak in hushed tones about the value of endarkenment.  
What a compelling word and question Brown Taylor invites us to consider: endarkenment. What are we learning about ourselves, each other, and even God through these times? 

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