Tuesday, April 8, 2025

Leadership Thought: Valuing People the Way Jesus Did.

Dear Friends,

Yesterday I was on the phone with a friend who was going through a difficult time. She shared with me how the relationship with her sister-in-law had been fractured during a political argument simply because she didn’t support the person her sister-in-law supported.

Unfortunately, this was not the first time I had heard of a relationship being destroyed over some political issue.

Sadly, there are people today, including those who are believers, who have written off friendships because of political differences.

Sadly, it is those who claim the name of Christ who are often most vulnerable to allowing politics to impact friendships.

Instead of valuing people and overlooking our differences in a spirit of love, we focus on our differences and allow those differences to divide us.

Unfortunately, Christians can become contentious, and that quality can tarnish their witness.

As believers, we should strive to value others, regardless of their point of view, and yet many times we do just the opposite; we devalue them. Instead of bringing people together, we divide them by our actions.

“See how they love one another,” was a frequent refrain of unbelievers as they watched the early church believers love one another. It was the love they saw practiced inside the walls of the church that attracted them and resulted in their wanting to know more about the love they saw lived out among believers.

Today I wonder what the world thinks of us in the church as they watch how we relate to one another.

God did not send His Son to teach us how to point fingers at others; He taught us to love one another.

He taught us that we should be salt and light, qualities that attract others.

The fruit of the Spirit is characterized by love, and it is that love that makes us different from the rest of the world.

In Galatians 5:22- 23  Paul writes, “But the fruit produced by the Holy Spirit within you is divine love in all its varied expressions: joy that overflows, peace that subdues, patience that endures, kindness in action, a life full of virtue, faith that prevails, gentleness of heart, and strength of spirit. Never set the law above these qualities, for they are meant to be limitless.”(TPT)

As believers we have the choice of being fruitful or fruitless, of loving and valuing others, or rejecting and devaluing others. We can curse the darkness, or we can turn on our lights and let them shine for the world to see.

If we don’t value people and try to see the best in them, how will we ever relate to them and win them to Jesus?

As Christ followers we should be salt and light. We should be different from those in the world, and it is that distinctive difference that sets us apart and causes others to want to know the secret to that difference.

If you and I don’t value  those who act and think differently than us, how will we ever help them, and if we never help them, how will they ever see  and come to know the love of Christ that can change them?

It was the religious people who wrote off people like Zacchaeus,  the Samaritan woman at the well, or the thief on the cross, but these were the very people, sinners just like you and me, who Jesus came to save.

If you and I want to be Christ like, the answer is simple; value people, all people, and especially those who act and think differently than us.

Religious people wanted to write sinners off. Jesus wanted to write them in and make them main characters in His story  to remind us that no one is beyond saving.

The law of God is of little value, if we don’t have the love of God. The law will make us legalistic policeman, but the love of God will make us loving brothers and sisters who know that no one is beyond Christ’s love and His redemption.

Yours in faith and friendship,

Tom

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