Dear Friends,
Are you a charismatic? No, I am not talking about whether
you speak in tongues or go to a church that emphasizes the baptism in the
Holy Spirit. I am talking about whether you are the kind of person that draws
others to you, the kind of person that others can't wait to be around.
When a charismatic person enters a room, his first thought
is not "Here I am," but "There you are."
A charismatic person's focus is on you, and they make you
feel like they are genuinely glad and excited to see and be you. They make you
feel like you are the most important person in the room.
When they talk with you, they are not interested in being
impressive but being impressed.
A charismatic person is always looking to bring the best out
of the other person. He always gives them the "Triple A" Treatment:
attention, affirmation and appreciation.
The moment you put your focus on others, their value will
expand in your heart and mind, and your own self-importance will shrink
and diminish.
A charismatic person always believes the best in others and
in doing so discovers he truly brings the best out of them. That's what
makes a charismatic.
Are you one?
Yours in faith and friendship,
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