Dear Friends,
It’s always nice to be remembered. A few of you e-mailed me and asked if I was doing OK because they hadn’t received a Leadership Thought the last few days. I took a few days off to travel north to visit two of my wife’s best friends in Henderson Harbor, New York, who are both facing the challenge of battling cancer as Jean and I did. It is amazing how close one becomes when you spend time with others who are facing this life-threatening disease.
It’s good to be back home once again after driving five and a half hours through a torrential rainstorm, and I wanted to say thanks to those of you who wrote and wondered how I was doing.
I would like to ask for your prayers as I will soon be entering the hospital for a heart catheterization that will hopefully address some breathing issues I have experienced in the last few months.
A few years ago, I attended the funeral of a dear friend whose words in 1969 changed the direction of my life and ministry. Those words came from the lips of Dick Armstrong, who had been a professor at Princeton Theological Seminary, Dick recently passed away at age 94.
Dick enjoyed a varied career in both the secular and religious worlds. He was a professional baseball player, an accomplished pianist and composer of music. He was the director of public relations for the Baltimore Orioles baseball team, and the first person to introduce the idea of team mascots to professional sports, his Mr. Oriole being the first professional team mascot to appear on the field. Dick, who had pastored one of the largest churches in the Presbyterian denomination, was also a prolific writer who authored seven books and had been working on three others at the time of his death. Dick was the most amazing and multi gifted man I have ever met. His obituary filled a full page of the Princeton, N.J. newspaper.
I first met Dick thorough the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, while he was serving as President of the National Trustee Board for the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Our interests in sports and faith provided a natural attraction and thus began a friendship that we maintained for almost 50 years. Living in the Princeton area provided me the opportunity of visiting with him on a number of occasions, and I never left our times together without feeling encouraged and inspired to be a better person and a better pastor.
But now about those words that changed the trajectory of my life and ministry. Dick had been serving as interim pastor at the Cedar Park Presbyterian Church in Philadelphia. He called and asked me if I would be interested in pastoring a church like Cedar Park. The church had been a predominately white church, but it was now located in a community that was 80 percent black and facing the challenge of reaching out and serving this rapidly changing racial community.
At the time I was serving a small church in Syracuse, New York. I knew little, if anything, about urban ministry, and having grown up in a predominately white community of Watertown, New York, I felt totally incompetent and unprepared for the kind of ministry this church needed. Dick was persistent, however, and on two different occasions he called and encouraged me to at least explore the possibility of ministry. Each time, I politely told him I was not interested.
After our third conversation, however, he closed with the words that changed my thinking about my direction for ministry. Dick said, "Tom, I believe you're the man for this ministry."
Dick believed in me when I didn't believe in myself. He had confidence in my abilities at a time when I felt totally inadequate. I couldn’t get those words out of my mind. “Dick believes in me!”
Belief in someone is a powerful force in shaping one's life, and it was those nine words, and, of course, the power of the Holy Spirit that changed my attitude about my limitations and inadequacies. I accepted Dick's challenge, pursued the position and eventually was called to become Cedar Park's pastor. The next seven years of my ministry were life changing for me and my family as our church would become one of the few fully integrated churches in Philadelphia.
During that time, I grew as a pastor in ways I never could have imagined.
Dick’s words were powerful and life changing. They became the positive push that changed my life and my ministry.
Words can do that. They can become "the wind beneath our wings" that enable us to soar beyond the limits of our expectations.
The Apostle Paul fully realized the power of the 'positive push' when he exhorts us "To encourage one another and build each other up, just as you are already doing. " 1 Thess. 5:11
Is there someone in your life who would benefit from your words of encouragement?
Why not drop them a note or pick up the phone and give them a call? I promise you that you will be glad you did, and so will the person you contact. Who knows but what your words might be as life changing as Dick's words were for me.
Yours in faith and friendship,
Pastor Tom
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