Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Leadership Thoughts: Some of My Best Friends, I’ve Met on Bended Knees.

Dear Friends,

In a few minutes, I will be heading to meet some of my friends at the church. For the past few months, I have been homebound and unable to drive because of my recent hip surgery. So, it’s been a while since I have been able to be with these dear friends. Since I am now able to drive, I will be joining them again at our church.

Who are these best friends? They are my partners in prayer.

Yes, some of the greatest friends I have, I’ve made on bended knee. There are few things that will forge a friendship  faster than praying with another brother or sister.

I am so blessed to meet for prayer with this group of brothers and sisters every Thursday morning,  and for the next hour  spending  time with them fellowshipping and praying together. 

Those of us who will shortly be together know that we will be doing one of the most important works of the church. They all understand the church moves forward fastest on bended knee, and that kingdom business is best accomplished when it’s done through prayer.

Just as we would always close our team's football practice with a team huddle, we too close our time together with a “holy” huddle.

We conclude our prayer time with a ‘holy hug.’ We gather together, forming the tightest circle possible, and with body against body and arms embracing one another, we close out our time with a final exhortation and a hearty Amen. What a feeling of unity we share as that final amen is sounded.

During these times of prayer, friendships are being forged that will last forever.

I believe the greatest barometer of a church’s health and effectiveness will be determined by the number of its people who are engaged in prayer.

Charles Spurgeon said, “The condition of the church may be very accurately gauged by its prayer meetings. The prayer meeting is a ‘grace-o-meter,’ and from it we may judge the amount of divine working (being done) among a people. If God is in the church, then the church must pray. And if He is not there, one of the first tokens of His absence will be a slothfulness in prayer... You can tell how popular the church is by who comes on Sunday mornings. But you can tell how popular Jesus is by who comes to the prayer meetings.”

Fresh Wind Fresh Fire, Jim Cymbala,  p. 29.

It was S.D.  Gordon, who said, “You can do more than pray after you have prayed, but you cannot do more than pray until you have prayed.”

If you would like to forge lasting friendships and see a spirit-filled and thriving church, then join a prayer group.

If you would like to witness a church on fire, then fall on your knees.

If you would like to see something exciting happen this Sunday, then before passing through the church doors, join the ranks of the prayer warriors and silently offer up the following silent prayer. “0 Lord, please lead me to someone whom I might be able to pray with today.”  And then, whether before or after the service, be on the lookout for that person or persons God wants you to for.  As you engage them in conversation, listen carefully for some spoken need they might express, and then, before you conclude your time together, ask them if you could pray for them. People will seldom refuse your offer, and they will never forget your prayer.

If every member came to church with this goal in mind, there would be a spiritual tsunami of encouragement sweeping through your congregation. People would no longer hurry out the doors to the parking lot following the close of worship. Instead, the church would be filled with the sweet fragrance of prayer wafting through the congregation.

There is nothing like praying with and for one another to build and foster community, so why not come to church prepared to offer one of the greatest gifts you could ever give someone, the holy gift of prayer?

I close with the words of Martin Luther, who said, "The need for prayer has never been greater than it is at this time, and it will be still greater from now on until the end of time."

Have a great day, and don't forget that you and I grow best on bended knee.

Yours in faith and friendship,

Tom

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