Wednesday, May 11, 2022

Leadership Thought: A Wedding and a Prison Story of "His Persistent Love."

Dear Friends,

A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to attend a wedding I will never forget. The two people married were in there late 50's and had been communicating with one another for almost 30 years. 

Phil had been in prison serving 50 years for murder and, Debbie, a friend of mine, had been serving in an area prison ministry.

I came to know Phil while visiting the Rahway maximum security prison where the church I was serving would make periodic visits to lead worship services for the inmates.

Phil came to know Christ shortly after entering prison when another prisoner in an adjacent cell whispered through a duct. "Do you know Jesus?" before being transported to another facility. Before he left, he pushed a Bible through the air vent and that was the beginning of Phil's spiritual transformation. 

A few years later he met Debbie, director of His Persistent Love, a prison ministry, and the two became friends.

Over the next 30 years that friendship continued to grow as they communicated with one another through mail and occasional prison visits. Debbie shared during the wedding that she had received and kept over 3000 handwritten letters she had received from Phil. 

During his time behind bars, Phil was a volunteer prison chaplain, and he had the joy of leading many of his incarcerated brothers to Christ.

Phil and Debbie's friendship continued to grow over those many years. And then it happened. Phil received news that after serving 30 years behind bars, he would be released on good behavior, and at 60 he would now be free to start a new life outside Rahway's prison walls.

No longer separated by prison bars, Phil and Debbie could now spend time with together one another. And during the next several months their long friendship took another step when Phil proposed and asked Debbie to be his wife.

I sat in the back with a minister friend of mine, and we marveled at the wedding. I have led or attended at least one hundred weddings in my life, but never had I witnessed one quite like this. There were tears, laughter, and handclapping applause as both Phil and Debbie shared their love for one another.

Before the service even began, Phil took to the mike to thank the packed church for their presence, and then he proceeded to share a brief and remarkable testimony of God's faithfulness and how His transforming love had brought him and Debbie to the altar where they would profess their love for one another and become husband and wife.

I hope this brief introduction will generate enough interest to encourage you to watch this unique celebration of love that brought people to their feet as together they rejoiced in the faithfulness of "His Persistent Love."

Click on the link below and listen to Phil's testimony and, I know you will want to witness the rest of this amazing service.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlHnizr5G0k,

Yours in faith and friendship,

Tom

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